I'm fortunate to live in the Bay Area where we have many great dr's. I am in a healthcare system where if I don't really like the Dr I am seeing, I can easily see another one. It has taken years to find competent Dr's. I 've also gotten assigned to dr's, like the eye surgeon I've recently been seeing that I like very much. Health care these days is difficult. In the system I am in, Dr's often have to take care of so much themselves and aren't given much time between patients. Covid changed care so much. Video appts are pushed. I am not afraid to ask a dr what he is prescribing and why. Honestly, I don't take many meds so it is easy. I will not leave an office unless/until I get questions answered. If a Dr is not ok with that, then I need a new dr. The pharmacy is under the same system. Asking for the manager is very helpful if I haven't already found answers to my questions. Respected cites, like Mayo or Webmd. Yes, one truly has to be an advocate. I found this site bc I didn't feel I was given adequate information on a dx. I have since told the dr so. I think at the time I needed information it was unfortunate timing. I will give the dr the benefit of the doubt. .....this time.