@tunared One of my friends mother had Alzheimer’s, another has Parkinson’s, RA and prostrate, another prostrate cancer it seems all of my friends are going through something right now it’s just that they are at a point in there life where some of them can still travel whereas it would be difficult for us, since my husband not only has had cancer 3 times but broke 3 of his vertebras and is currently going through shots again, I myself have had cancer 3 times. Maybe I shouldn’t have said envious I am not sad just unhappy that we can’t go although we travelled a lot in the past. I find there isn’t any point discussing his dementia there is nothing they can do but they are there if I need them. It’s like cancer if you haven’t had it you can’t understand someone who has. I don’t mean this to sound bad but we have a good life I just have to get through the bad days.