Not true. It goes both ways. Here for you.

@swartzki

I'm sorry that you're putting up with your husband's narcissistic behavior. I find it offensive and I've never met him. Has he always been this way? What you describe is spouse abuse, and you shouldn't have to go on being his target. Have you talked with a counselor about this?

Have you done anything to protect your money? Any ideas how you can do that?

No apology is needed. Support goes both ways. Sometimes we can give it and sometimes we need to ask for and accept gift of compassionate care. You have many supporters here.

I would suggest that you give serious thought to an escape plan. I don't know what that would look like, but you are worth the effort to get out from under his bullying. I promise to pray for you.

Jim