@alberth you can expect to continue downhill when radiation ends. This is normal and may last a couple weeks. Do not despair. Eat what you can, even if it’s the same thing. You will get through this and it is clear you are not alone. God is with you.

@alberth No friends are not the same as your children. Luckily I have one devoted daughter, a son who really cares but is 2500 miles away, and I have a daughter who cares but has issues with her husband's heart condition that she attends too. As far as friends, I don't think they have any knowledge of what one goes through and so if they cannot see a difference, well, it just isn't a concern.
As far as healing after radiation, my swallowing issues came almost a year after radiation, however speech has always been an issue.
I am just thankful I am alive but hope and pray this will not come back My care team at U of M is very thorough and I can only place my trust in them.
My diagnosis, surgery and treatment was done so quickly that it was what I consider a miracle. I just have to deal with all the issues now. God bless you.

@alberth

I’ll second the comment “you are not alone!” You’ve got support and friends you haven’t even met! Best part of that is we have walked in your shoes. I’m 3 years out and doing fine. I lost my only sibling to cancer while I was going through treatment. Found out I’m not ready to go yet. Give it your best, there will be no regrets. Godspeed my compadre!

@alberth hope your holding up, I am 10 years out July will by 10th anniversary of free and clear PET - still get screened stay strong and powerful