hello everyone, new here on the Parkinson's site. i have been on the thyroid cancer site for years. this is about my husband who will see a neurologist this coming friday the 22nd of may, 2026. he has been suffering with the essential tremor's, which has gotten worst in the past year, right arm. trouble swallowing this year with minor memory loss. forgetfulness which is no big deal when you get older anyway. 84 years young. sleep deprived, never feels good, pain in joints and muscles. this past year no real interest in doing anything. he really does not want to go to the neurologist and do a whole bunch of tests, he feels at his age, just go with the flow. it is what it is. lots of symptoms like the bending of the head and slow walk with feelings like going to fall over with dizziness. the small handwriting. the low talking voice. but does not converse at all like he use to be so talkative. any advice would be greatly appreciated.