Hi @wes152 Another potential resource center is National Bone Marrow Transplant Link. There might be some ideas on their site for your unique situation.
https://www.nbmtlink.org

Also the Mayo Clinic Concierge desk often has a few tricks up their sleeves along with a host of resources for Rochester.
Five Ways to Contact Mayo Concierge Services
-Phone: 507-538-8438
-Live Chat: https://www.mayoclinic.org/patient-visitor-guide
-Email: concierge@mayo.edu
-Web form: https://www.mayoclinic.org/patient-visitor-guide/minnesota/becoming-a-patient/concierge-travel-services
-In-person in Rochester MN: Lobby hours are 8:00-5:00 Monday through Friday. Offices are located in the International Center in the Mayo Mathew’s Lobby, Executive Lounge on Mayo 5, Radiation Oncology Lobby Desk R
What is your timeline for the BMT?

@wes152 , I’m no expert, but, i would try to find one in your state to explain the options. Usually, the social worker or financial office in a nursing home can assist. Usually, there are 2 types of long term care financial assistance , 1) is Assisted Living which comes from the state and has strict income limits as well as asset limits. Not much leeway. And 2) long term care in a nursing home. True longterm care Medicaid. This is we where you get actual long term care Medicaid. It also has asset limitation requirements, though one auto and one home are exempt and income is considered, but unless you actually have enough income to pay the full month’s long term care facility fee, they work it out. You have to use all but about $40.00 per month from your income, but they pay the rest. If you have investments accounts, savings, etc., this route is still possible, but you have to spenddown those assets first. It’s a lot of work for 3 months, but I’d explore it with an expert in your area.