@cloudydaysue I’m sorry. I don’t have any suggestions for you, I just want to let you know I feel you. It’s really tricky to maneuver through caregiving when he/she has very clear moments mixed with very confused moments. It really hits you coming and going. You get all settled in and comfy with utter cognizance, then, bam, gone in a moment. It leaves you feeling so deflated and sad.
For the tech, hmmm, if you can at least use a phone, it’s really helpful to ask complex questions to google to get technological help. And pick and choose through the various answers to get the best answer and also to piece together the different versions of answers to compile the perfect one. I hope that makes sense for you. If you know a teen that you would feel comfortable with, they know soo much about phones. Good luck. I’m probably not useful to actually help with your technology, but I’m here for your needs and willing to help in whatever way I can.
Linda