@rythymblue I can. I have a man who speaks harshly, Calls me names, complains constantly and does the opposite of what he should or could do. He has LBD and is so cruel. I had a friend come over and stay a couple of hours so I could go to the Dr. He did not speak or acknowlege her..She is friends with both of us. At night he might say just about anything. It usually is something that I won't repeat. I am tired and cannot sleep most nights ..going through this for many years does not always make you feel loved and appreciated.