Reflect on your own behavior when you were at the stage of life raising children. Think about the time you sought your first job. Remember how life absorbed you with all the needs of growth and adjustment. Yes, I too am unhappy that my children don't pay enough attention to me. They have their own lives and we need to continue to go forward with our own lives. We send presents for birthdays and don't receive any thank you. They don't include us in their plans. Okay, try to understand. One thing we can do is give them their inheritance early. Sometimes, that can bring them closer. All the best to you.