@dbamos1945 Bette, I had to read this twice.

Thank you for being here, and for saying the part about the “Polly-Anna world” out loud. Stage 4 to stage 4 — you do understand. The way you described the divide between us and the rest of the world… that’s it. That’s exactly it.

I’m so sorry about your neuroendocrine cancer in your liver. I wouldn’t wish this knowing — the limited time, the way it strips the future down to right now — on anyone. But I’m grateful you’re here, and that my words found you.

I would love that pot of tea and cookies more than you know. Laughs, tears, rage — I’ve got all of those bottled up too. You’ve already infused me with love just by writing this.

I’ll take that walk around my yard today and look for the goodness. Thank you for reminding me I have control over how I react, even when I have no control over this body.

Rubyslippers sees you, Bette. I’m here too. You’re not alone either. Sending you love right back.