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I am a very sad caregiver

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@babbsjoy lovely message. I can relate caregiving for my 97 year old mother by myself and working. I see you and thank you for your support.

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Thank YOU! Cudos! Working AND caregiving has to be exhausting! My dad is now 94+, and we have been doing this for 5 1/2 years. He has had increasing health issues and some cognitive effects. My husband just retired and could use more of my attention. But now, it’s not good for us to leave dad home alone at all. I heard a sermon this morning on not just existing, but honoring God by living fully, gratefully, robustly—in appreciation for the life He has given us. I have been praying on what that should/could look like for my dad (ie how can I give him every opportunity to live this out, given his current declining state), and for my husband and I. It feels like we are all just kind of existing lately…

So, by you taking the time to comment on my comment—I think is at least part of an answer to that prayer! A reminder that I need to keep my eyes on Him, and be vigilant for the “little” things He provides to enrich and encourage—and celebrate them! Our yard is bursting with fragrant blossoms—it is a celebration for the senses. I’ll look forward to spending some time with dad on the porch enjoying it today, and maybe learning something new about he and mom’s life before me. And I think I will try to cook something different that my husband would enjoy today! Please know that God really used you to encourage me today. Thanks, and many blessings to you!