Colostomy: I hate this thing!

Posted by coloncutter @coloncutter, Apr 24, 2025

Does anybody else think that having a colostomy bag is worse then spending time in prison. I hate this thing

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@aliveagain I have decided not to have it done ,the Dr. Told me a lot of things that could go wrong even i might have to much scar tissue after opening me up and would still have to keep the bag and I'm feeling good now so don't want to go through that..I ask my friend and my brother that was with me through the first surgery and they said if the bag isn't bothering me that they wouldn't have it with what I went through with almost dying

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@catbaloo76 I'm totally with you on this decision! Feel good!

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Profile picture for rioa21 @rioa21

My colostomy has given me back my life! I was miserable before. All my time was spent looking for a bathroom or being in one. I suffered horribly from fecal incontinence due to radiation treatment for anal cancer. I am extremely grateful that the option of having a colostomy even exists!

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@rioa21 thank you for posting this. I have a low rectal tumor that I'm going to have to get a resection for and I'm super nervous about how to care for the ostomy and still have an active life. But you mentioning the bathroom thing helps me to see the bright side of getting this. I know it's going to be a big change, do you have any advice on how to care for it on the go or products you use for yours?

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@rioa21 thank you for posting this. I have a low rectal tumor that I'm going to have to get a resection for and I'm super nervous about how to care for the ostomy and still have an active life. But you mentioning the bathroom thing helps me to see the bright side of getting this. I know it's going to be a big change, do you have any advice on how to care for it on the go or products you use for yours?

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Welcome to Mayo Connect, @dgroves0430 ! And welcome to the club that no one wants to join. I'm sure there will be folks along with colostomy specific advice, but for now, I have an ileostomy and I do a lot of travel, and I scuba dive, hike, cycle, swim, and work out in the gym. The Ostomy and J-Pouch blog has some ariticles that may help get you started.

We also have a virtual support group you can call into. Its run by one of the Mayo WOCN's and its a great place to ask questions. We meet on the first Tuesday of the month at 4pm Arizona Time.

The next meeting is Tue, May 5, 2026, 4:00pm to 6:00pm; I hope you can join us!

Join Zoom Meeting here
https://mchealth.zoom.us/j/99659580974
Meeting ID: 996 5958 0974
Passcode: Ostomy

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@rioa21 thank you for posting this. I have a low rectal tumor that I'm going to have to get a resection for and I'm super nervous about how to care for the ostomy and still have an active life. But you mentioning the bathroom thing helps me to see the bright side of getting this. I know it's going to be a big change, do you have any advice on how to care for it on the go or products you use for yours?

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@dgroves0430 I use a Hollister two closed end Hollister bag and flange. I change both parts everyday. I just feel cleaner that way. I have had a few leaks over the last two years. I use the extender strips on the bottom part of the flange. The extra coverage really helps. I always carry a small bag of supplies with me at all times. Wearing a bag that gets tossed away is easy to deal with when you’re away from home. I am a very active person. The ostomy doesn’t stop me. I wish you the very best.

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@dgroves0430 I use a Hollister two closed end Hollister bag and flange. I change both parts everyday. I just feel cleaner that way. I have had a few leaks over the last two years. I use the extender strips on the bottom part of the flange. The extra coverage really helps. I always carry a small bag of supplies with me at all times. Wearing a bag that gets tossed away is easy to deal with when you’re away from home. I am a very active person. The ostomy doesn’t stop me. I wish you the very best.

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@rioa21 thank you so much! I'm a little lost when it comes to all the options so I def appreciate you for being specific. At least I feel a little more educated when it comes to this. I'm just so nervous about how I'm going to handle everything.

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Welcome to Mayo Connect, @dgroves0430 ! And welcome to the club that no one wants to join. I'm sure there will be folks along with colostomy specific advice, but for now, I have an ileostomy and I do a lot of travel, and I scuba dive, hike, cycle, swim, and work out in the gym. The Ostomy and J-Pouch blog has some ariticles that may help get you started.

We also have a virtual support group you can call into. Its run by one of the Mayo WOCN's and its a great place to ask questions. We meet on the first Tuesday of the month at 4pm Arizona Time.

The next meeting is Tue, May 5, 2026, 4:00pm to 6:00pm; I hope you can join us!

Join Zoom Meeting here
https://mchealth.zoom.us/j/99659580974
Meeting ID: 996 5958 0974
Passcode: Ostomy

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@susanf8 thank you so much! I saw the meeting so I have it added to my calendar, I'm really grateful there's a support group and lots of info because I'm a little lost when it comes to all of this.

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@rioa21 thank you for posting this. I have a low rectal tumor that I'm going to have to get a resection for and I'm super nervous about how to care for the ostomy and still have an active life. But you mentioning the bathroom thing helps me to see the bright side of getting this. I know it's going to be a big change, do you have any advice on how to care for it on the go or products you use for yours?

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@dgroves0430 I use comfort Medical if your insurance pays for part or all they help you decide what you need and it comes right to your door they have free samples I've use them for over a year and there great give them a call.

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I hate mine but it's better than having surgery again.

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i use a coloplast mio flex one piece closed end ostomy bag so I just remove entire bag and throw it away. Clean the area and put a clean bag on I feel much cleaner this way and I only have one piece to deal with The only time I have a leak is if my output pancakes so I do watch what I eat Coloplast will send you samples to try Im 87 and have had surgery for 2 years I try to make it as simple as possible I too also carry a change of supplies with me when I go out but I have only had to use it once Im just not brave enough to go without it. You will get into a routine that suits you and it will get much easier

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