Diagnosed today w/ PCa. Seeking feedback w/ treatment I think I want

Posted by thig350 @thig350, Apr 10 8:13pm

Well, have been learning from this support group for past 5 months since PSA test came back 11.7 then 5 months later 8.7. Today, biopsy results were shared by my Urologist. Diagnosed with Grade 3 PCa. Data is as follows:

57 year old male.
Risk group: unfavorable intermediate risk prostate cancer
Prostate biopsy date: 4/2/26
Hypoechoic lesions: right base anterior
Clinical stage: T2a
Grade: 3
Highest gleason grade: 4+3
Cores positives on biopsy: 3/13
Prostate volume: 35ccs
Other imaging findings: MRI w PIRAD 5 lesion - right anterior transitional zone.

My urologist said that the two best treatment options were either remove the prostate or radiation with ADT. He recommends removal. Given my younger age, I really don't want to deal with ED or incontinence when I am in my prime if you will. I am leaning towards radiation with ADT. I believe it is called medical castration where they don't actually remove the testicles but instead provide meds to reduce the testosterone...

Urologist said that if I go with radiation I have a chance of down the road of bowel, rectum, bladder damage, urinary issues. Could be as much as 7-10 years away but the risk is there. Plus, no surgery if the cancer returns post radiation.

Can anyone here speak to life post radiation several years down the line? Is it that bad? If the cancer returns, am I limited with treatment options?

Also, what is it with the apparent milestones of 5 years post treatment and 10-15 years post treatment? Is this what the medical professionals are saying that prostate cancer survivors expected lifespan is post treatment?

I welcome any and all thoughts and feedback and thank you in advance.

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Sorry to hear it.
I might sound like a shill for the Prostate Cancer Research Institute (PCRI), promise I am not- it just really helped me and I want everyone that is not aware of it, to use their resources. There are literally scores of videos about treatment options on their website - and many specifically related to surgery vs radiation. Please go there if you have not already done so, I am sure it will help.

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@johnt15

PCRI.ORG is where we begin to learn so much!

Glad you posted it Not a shill either!

Ray

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@steveinmalaysia
You are pretty new here, but I like your advice.

You may not have noticed, but I’ve already been telling people to go to ancan.org Meetings for at least a year and a half. I’ve been going to them for five years, every week. There’s also the reluctant brotherhood meetings and https://cancersupport.net/. All good places to get advice about treatment.

I also recommend Dr. Epstein for second opinions, Hard to beat his one-on-one help when you make a phone call and get the doctor to tell you what’s going on.

You may not have noticed, but many of us are recommending decipher after biopsies and treatment as well as PSE tests before getting a biopsy

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@jeffmarc

Thank you sooo much Jeff. Appreciate all you do.

Ray

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@bens1

Hi there! What size prostate did you have before treatment?
I am faced with either surgery or Ro, prostate size 69cc, 3+4 GG2, 2.93 psa, decipher .46, bilateral Pc

Thank you!

Ray

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@ray092271

My prostate was small, 48.9 cc.

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Hi,

With both surgery or radiation side effects(ED & leakage) are very possible. Surgery you get it right after, with radiation you get in months or years later. The newer one port prostate removal has very less ED and leakage problems. ADT is not very fun either but some of the newer drugs(Orgovyx) show less side effects. Talk to your medical team more in depth about treatment options.

Dave 3+4

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@marlon Thank you for your response. In all honesty, I have been banging the keyboard on my computer this evening with a vengeance. The more I look into this thing, the more I start to warm up to removal. But the whole catheter thing is not appealing but I guess I would need to deal with it. Hearing that you have no regrets is helpful so thank you.

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@thig350
The catheter's only for a week and then it's over. And it's not that bad.

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Hi, There is a one incision surgery technique that usually has less nerve damage which means less ED and less urine leakage, talk to your doctor team about it. Usually it is harder to surgically remove a prostate after it has been radiated but it can be done by an experienced surgeon.
Dave 3+4

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@steveinmalaysia
You are pretty new here, but I like your advice.

You may not have noticed, but I’ve already been telling people to go to ancan.org Meetings for at least a year and a half. I’ve been going to them for five years, every week. There’s also the reluctant brotherhood meetings and https://cancersupport.net/. All good places to get advice about treatment.

I also recommend Dr. Epstein for second opinions, Hard to beat his one-on-one help when you make a phone call and get the doctor to tell you what’s going on.

You may not have noticed, but many of us are recommending decipher after biopsies and treatment as well as PSE tests before getting a biopsy

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@jeffmarc Hi Jeff, thanks for the reply.

I have not yet been treated but Ancan (Rick and Stuart) have helped me immensely. Both gentle pushes, understanding and help with connections and decision support . I have made a friend also who recently was treated and also lives in SEA and California (I used to live in California) so it has kind of become part of my life.

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Can only speak from my own experience. I am T3a, chose robot assisted laparoscopic radical prostatectomy non nerve sparing. Most important to me was to remove the bulk of the cancer and get a good look at the cancer and where it might have spread because if needed this gives medical and radiation oncologist a better chance of fighting the cancer if need be in the future. Weigh the cost and benefits of all treatments do your own research and seek guidance from God.

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On a statistical basis both a prostatectomy and radiation with ADT offer equivalent outcomes worth respect to disease-free survival and over all mortality. In the case of recurrence after surgery, salvage radiation and ADT are available treatment options. With radiation and ADT, if there is a local recurrence, surgical options are limited , but there are circumstances where surgery can be done and other options exist. Sadly neither approach is free from potential side effects and complications. As far as bladder and colon damage from radiation are concerned, preliminary testing can assess your risk of late complications. A hydrogel rectal space is commonly used to reduce bowel exposure. If you have only talked with your surgeon, and not consulted directly with a radiation oncologist, you should do that before finalizing your decision. Your age (57), too, should be weighed in to the final decision. I was 73 when I and had SBRT in 9/2025 and am 6 months into a 12 mos course of ADT. It’s no picnic, but I’m back to all my normal activities and exercise with so far an excellent treatment response.

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@soli How was your recovery right after surgery? I.e. multi day hospital stay, pain, catheter, activity level/energy level, infection issues etc. Thank you!

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@thig350
In reply to treatment choice.
I will be honest with you, won't pull any punches, I was advised to go with radiotherapy mainly due to also waiting to have my spine operated on due to having Stenosis spinel channel nerve damage in neck. I haven't been properly well since last April / May after the treatment concluded. 6 weeks ago they found blood in my poo, setting alarm bells ringing, quickly arranged a colonoscopy, thank evens they didn't find any bowel cancer, this is the worrying bit, they found damage caused by the radiotherapy treatment and polyps and also diagnosed severe bowl Diverticulosis disease wide spread. I have got to have the procedure repeated on 24th April to investigate further, won't pretend I'm not concerned.
Good luck with what ever treatment path you take

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