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Some of us need others to fix things for us. This can place others in an uncomfortable place as no matter what they say or do it is never enough. This can oft drive others far from us.I have not ever been one to expect others to always be around to cuddle and care. To ask others to always be there to comfort is not at all realistic for me. Having others in my space being needy and clingy can be stressful.
We are all so different in what we expect from others.
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What great insight you have provided for the "great fixer" mentality. You are right, there is no one who can fix us, the power is in our own hands and minds.
Your ideas about, "The depression monster comes a lurk, lurking, lurking. We are stronger than the heavy tread" is also a great descriptor of what it feels like to be overcome with depression. If you ever publish these thoughts it would make a good read for others.
I'm glad that you added, "Can't go back to the old ways." Every one of us needs new ways to cope.