Diagnosed today w/ PCa. Seeking feedback w/ treatment I think I want
Well, have been learning from this support group for past 5 months since PSA test came back 11.7 then 5 months later 8.7. Today, biopsy results were shared by my Urologist. Diagnosed with Grade 3 PCa. Data is as follows:
57 year old male.
Risk group: unfavorable intermediate risk prostate cancer
Prostate biopsy date: 4/2/26
Hypoechoic lesions: right base anterior
Clinical stage: T2a
Grade: 3
Highest gleason grade: 4+3
Cores positives on biopsy: 3/13
Prostate volume: 35ccs
Other imaging findings: MRI w PIRAD 5 lesion - right anterior transitional zone.
My urologist said that the two best treatment options were either remove the prostate or radiation with ADT. He recommends removal. Given my younger age, I really don't want to deal with ED or incontinence when I am in my prime if you will. I am leaning towards radiation with ADT. I believe it is called medical castration where they don't actually remove the testicles but instead provide meds to reduce the testosterone...
Urologist said that if I go with radiation I have a chance of down the road of bowel, rectum, bladder damage, urinary issues. Could be as much as 7-10 years away but the risk is there. Plus, no surgery if the cancer returns post radiation.
Can anyone here speak to life post radiation several years down the line? Is it that bad? If the cancer returns, am I limited with treatment options?
Also, what is it with the apparent milestones of 5 years post treatment and 10-15 years post treatment? Is this what the medical professionals are saying that prostate cancer survivors expected lifespan is post treatment?
I welcome any and all thoughts and feedback and thank you in advance.
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@thig350 you are very welcome. I am just so happy where I am at.
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2 ReactionsHi,
I have a similar prognosis GG2 (3+4), Decipher 0.87, 5/25 positive cores /w cribriform and borderline IDCP. I have a few suggestions (all of which I have done):
1) Get a second opinion on your biopsy from Dr Epstein. He is the leading expert in the field and can give you definitive read on your biopsy (in most cases you will see a change I think... mine was upgraded). It's cheap and relatively easy to do. He has his own company doing the analysis now.
2) Get a decipher test to determine need for ADT. It's really designed for that purpose and will give you a much better idea about your prognosis.
3) Consider joining a patient advocacy group (eg: Ancan). They are great for helping you deal with a very complicated decision making process. They can help you both on the treatment decision and dealing with the anxiety of a cancer diagnosis. They can normally pair you up with a patient who has gone thru the same and likely with same Dr so you have a very good view into what to expect. It has helped me immensely.
4) IMO the best treatment for BCR and minimal side effects is MR Linac SBRT ( with ADT if determined by decipher score). I looked at 1) Tulsa Pro (too high a likelihood of BCR) 2) MR Linac (non invasive good BCR and side effect profile ) 3) HDR Mono Therapy (good but more invasive) 4) HDR Brachy boost with IMRT (good for more advanced disease).
5) I would first try to find the right Dr you are comfortable with who has expertise in the option you are looking at (eg; Dr Kishan @ UCLA for MR Linac) at a Center of Excellence.
6) If you decide on MR Linac get a Prostox test to determine likelihood of GU side effects.
7) If you have a family history of PCa consider a germline test to eliminate presence of PC genes (BRA2, etc).
8) PCa is a slow moving disease so don't jump to any conclusions and treatment decisions because what you decide is a lifelong decision (in the ideal case something you don't have to revisit) so do the homework to make sure you don't have regrets and can live with the decision.
9) Drs like all humans have biases mostly towards the treatment they specialize in so seek out more than one opinion, including advocacy groups. AI (try Claude or ChatGPT) can help alot in the decision making process as it can be a great decision support tool and give you a more independent analysis.
My case is a bit more complicated as I'm self pay (64 y/o no insurance) and am an US expat but have done extensive research to get to a decision.
Wish you the best of luck in your journey.
Steve
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6 Reactions@thig350
My recovery was much better than I had imagined before the surgery. I spent only one night in the hospital and came home with a catheter and supplies (night bag, wipes, etc.). I had also prepared additional items in advance that I thought would make recovery smoother—such as catheter plugs for showering, over-the-shower-door hooks to hang washed catheter bags to dry, and plastic waste baskets to hold the catheter bags when I was in bed or sitting and watching TV.
I did not experience any UTIs or catheter-related complications, although I was always aware of the catheter and took care to avoid accidentally snagging or disconnecting it. While it was certainly an inconvenience, I was relieved when it was removed seven days after surgery.
My pain level was minimal from Day 1 and decreased rapidly, so I never needed to take the narcotic pain medications I was prescribed. I was sent home with a spirometer to use for a few days to support lung function, and my energy and activity levels improved fairly quickly. I walked several thousand steps each day and did light yoga, while avoiding strenuous exercise—especially activities involving the abdominal area, such as heavy lifting—for about six weeks.
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6 Reactions@wheel1 "The window for Surgery typically closes as you approach 75. "
That's what my surgeon told me, & I wasn't having any of it. I had the surgery just after my 76thth birthday & had zero complications, no pain, & no incontinence after catheter removal (also no pain). Just five tiny scars across my beltline which have since totally disappeared.
For me, a non-event.
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5 Reactions@readandlearn That is good your Surgeon was comfortable with your health and felt you definitely had a good ten years plus ahead of you. Their will always be exceptions to the norm, but the norm is 75 and statistically proven so after that it is between you and a surgeon.
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2 ReactionsHello @thig350 ,
I am 45 and just had radical prostatectomy. The key factor for me was the the same as yours. Given my young age i wanted to ensure that i will keep my erectile function to a certain extend available.
I was Gleason 9 (4+5), lymph nodes affected, and the seminal vesicles as well. No other metastasis. Given my high PSA (180) i knew my cancer was aggressive. I opted for 6 months ADT, which reduced the size of th prostate by 50% and made surgery less complicated. Also during the ADT treatment one of the lymph nodes clear out of cancer cells, and another one reduced in size from 14mm to 8 mm.
What is very important is that you seek a center that offers nerve sparring surgery. In my case, since i live in Germany, i chose to go to Martini Klinik in Hamburg.
The are using a technology called Neurofreeze, where the take the prostate out and freeze everything else around the area while you are still in surgery. The have a lab righ next to the surgery room and they slice the prostate and determine how much of the edges of the prostate are affected and how aggressive the cell are, and then they make a deccission on what and how much to cut (nerves, etc.). Other center in Gerany did not offer me this choice.
I went into the surgery expecting that i will preserve, in the best case scenario, 50% of the nerves.
I came out of the surgery, and the surgeon told they were able to save 70%.
If you ever consider to travel to Martini Klinik, keep in mind that they do nothing else except prostate. They are highly specialized and they perform over 3000 prostate surgeries per year.
It is amazing to se their operations. As far as costs, for someone coming to them without German insurance, let's say from the States, the most expensive treatment package costs 25000 Euros. It makes them very attractive as an alternative. They are number 1 in Germany and Europe and there are a lot of foreigners that travel to them for surgery from all over the world.
For me doing radiation before surgery was also a concern since it involves additional tissue damage that can lead to other issues down the line. The younger the age the more chances are to develop complications. For the guys in their 70s it may make more sense.
I wish you all the best in your decission making and your recovery journey.
Let me know if you have questions.
Stay strong and be positive.
Dinu
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8 ReactionsSorry to hear it.
I might sound like a shill for the Prostate Cancer Research Institute (PCRI), promise I am not- it just really helped me and I want everyone that is not aware of it, to use their resources. There are literally scores of videos about treatment options on their website - and many specifically related to surgery vs radiation. Please go there if you have not already done so, I am sure it will help.
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6 Reactions@steveinmalaysia
You are pretty new here, but I like your advice.
You may not have noticed, but I’ve already been telling people to go to ancan.org Meetings for at least a year and a half. I’ve been going to them for five years, every week. There’s also the reluctant brotherhood meetings and https://cancersupport.net/. All good places to get advice about treatment.
I also recommend Dr. Epstein for second opinions, Hard to beat his one-on-one help when you make a phone call and get the doctor to tell you what’s going on.
You may not have noticed, but many of us are recommending decipher after biopsies and treatment as well as PSE tests before getting a biopsy
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3 Reactions@thig350
Well, I am comfortable suggesting that the catheter post-op for 7 - 14 days is not the most important issue.
Surgery vs Radiation w/ ADT is a pretty big issue.
I, like Marlon, wanted the cancer removed and hopefully fully eradicated. Younger patients seem to do better with recovery and ED.
Salvage radiation has been a blessing as secondary treatment for many.
And, radiation is a good choice for many, if you go that route.
Best wishes
@bens1
Hi there! What size prostate did you have before treatment?
I am faced with either surgery or Ro, prostate size 69cc, 3+4 GG2, 2.93 psa, decipher .46, bilateral Pc
Thank you!
Ray