@brennankb55 Things seem to be moving mighty fast (your condition, not the medical interventions). I applaud you and your husband for looking into/investing in the additional walking and other aids that help you to safely navigate your living space. These constant accommodations of what we need according to how our bodies change are exactly what I was talking about in not knowing what to expect. I am now the proud owner and user of one walker and one rollator each in the car, one rollator for the garage and yard, and two in the house (mine is ranch style) - one that has a seat and the other, not. How did all this come about???
I've never heard of cauda equine compression - I will look that up. For sure, have that top of the line surgeon do your procedure, not "just anyone". Mine was decompression and fusion of L2 - Sacrum - a 7 hour operation because there were other issues that couldn't be detected before the procedure: the large number of bone spurs and resultant scraping was part of it. The only resultant pain was the healing of the sciatic nerve on my left side. It took weeks and weeks. I was so afraid the damage (and pain) were going to be permanent, but I was assured by the surgeon that they were not, and he was right. He said it would take some time, and he was right about that, too. But sure enough, no sciatic pain!
I think one of the most perplexing & disappointing results of all this (mobility issues due to breaking my hip about 10 months after the back surgery, P.N., inability to plan how pain meds may affect me based on exhaustion, combination with other meds, arthritis sometime as a response to changing weather, etc.) is that I'm just not dependable. Responsible, yes, but not able to be relied upon to be present at group events where there may be expectations as to participation. It bothers me to think it may look like I show up only when I want to.
Well, I don't want this to be a rant without end! I am plenty grateful for the way the Lord has provided through my whole life, given me an unbelievably wonderful family, and continues to take care of things, even as this body declines. Life is good. I believe I'm not the first to make that observation!!
Keep us posted. I am praying for you ~
Barb