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As a caregiver, what helps you the most?
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@richardfrancine
Thank you for sharing your situation. I can relate for sure. When my husband was admitted into the hospital about a month ago just for two nights, I was almost happy to have a night alone. This is a hard life, no doubt. I have a cat and a dog-my only solace right now. I don't know what i would do without them. I wonder if they have any idea how precious they are.
But, I feel the same as what you feel-the constant cleaning up, it's endless. The depression is sometimes like one of those weighted blankets, just crippling. I have days that I feel like I haven't done enough, and when I do something for myself, albeit it minimal, I feel guilty. Its tough, but I feel like it is very skill building.
Stay strong!
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@sporkandromi it IS hard- it is a lonesome road— sending hugs your way for everytime you need one— you cannot let yourself feel guilty for needing a little break- this is the hardest job you’ll ever do— and you are a good wife. I hope your day is a good one.
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@sporkandromi
Please don’t feel guilty for doing something for yourself. We have to keep our sanity. If your husband had intact mental faculties I am certain he would want that for you. Keep loving your pets. They are there for you. I probably tell my little dog that I love her and kiss her a hundred times a day. I also tell her that in the not so distant future it will be just her and me. We will continue on the road together. I am grateful for her company, now and later. Stay strong and do treat yourself now and then. YOU DESERVE IT.