Hey. I too have both MTHFR as well as Factor V Leiden. I found out after having my youngest son premature. My placenta was clotted and my son was born with arterial clots in his right arm. I am heterozygous for each. But this diagnosis has given me so much clarity to familial issues. All of the women in my mom’s family died in their 40-50s from clots / strokes. All of my mom’s brothers have had issues with clots. I suffer from major depression and anxiety ( MTHFR can cause ). 2 of my 3 kids have both mutations. 1 nephew has only MTHFR. I have been through some of the same BS as you with hospitals and Drs. To make it worse, I work in healthcare and they still patronize me and send me on my way. I’ve learned to be “that person” and stand up for myself …… most days. Although a lot of times it feels hopeless. I have tried to educate my kids the best I can so they can advocate for themselves