Radical Prostatectomy vs. Radiation therapy?
I'm a 65 year old very active workaholic male. I have a 100+ year old restaurant that is/was family owned and operated. Now there is just me as the remaining owner/operator. I'm also a part time professional stage technician (a passion of mine) and this job involves heavy lifting work.
I was diagnosed with stage 2b prostate cancer, 4 lesions 3+4=7 with a decipher score of .96, which I'm told is very high risk to metastasize. I had a PSMA PET scan and it shows, fortunately, that, at this point, there is no spread.
I'm very concerned about all options and their side effects. Biggest concern regarding surgery is incontinence, second is ED followed by the necessary time away from my business, which I am integral to the daily operation.
Radiation seems, with the issues stated above, like the best option, however I'm very concerned about long term health of other neighboring organs and the inability to due surgery post radiation if a reoccurrence should happen. Any thoughts/advice.
None of the listed concerns with exception of incontinence will prevent me from doing what is necessary for best long term outcome. Appreciate any thoughts and/or advice. Thank You, Michael
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@colleenyoung
Agreed 100 % ! Thanks Colleen for clarifying a fact that forum "population" does not represent real scenarios in general population.
Results are skewed and sometimes even in favorable direction with unusually good results of PC control in some patients. They are source of inspiration and hope for all of us < 3, because they are beating all odds , not because they are a norm.
Forums are fantastic resource for support, comradery, information about dealing with side effects and practical implementation of medical advice given by doctors that is sometime unclear or even not mentioned in post-op or post-treatment instructional documents.
This particular forum has couple of highly educated and highly experienced members who can offer some insight in available options for treatment or medications.
They also know how to navigate healthcare system and how to get help faster and what options out-there are available but it is up to a patient to bring "all that" to his doctor and than discuss all of that and than make a valid decision for HIS particular case. One member once told me that "every PC is a like fingerprint" - NO 2 cases are the same or will have same results no matter what. I always keep that in mind.
All in all - this is amazing place but it can not be used for any "statistical" purpose.
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5 Reactions@wwsmith They say that the Second Opinion Can change treatment 75% of the time…hopefully, for the better!
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3 ReactionsI have watched this forum for a while but have never posted anything. So here goes. I am 63 years old now. My biopsy was 3+4=7 Gleason and PSA was 5.2 at diagnosis. In my case, I chose nerve-sparing robotic surgery over radiation when I had my initial treatment in 2018 and my PSA was < .1 for four years.
I did this because my Dad was treated with radiation for throat cancer years ago and when it came back, they said surgery was no longer an option. He died six months later after lots of chemo. The other factor for me was that surgery provided a clean benchmark for success: PSA should drop to near zero. Radiation meant a drop to some “nadir” and then they watch it from there. After surgery, other treatments - radiation, PET scans, and ADT - these are all still on the table as future options to control a recurrence.
I just completed radiation last fall after a biochemical recurrence when my PSA climbed back to .23 over 6-plus years. Now, 6 months later, it is thankfully down to .04 after dropping to .07 after 33 treatments and 6 months of Orgovyx (the pill form of ADT.)
I meet with my radiation oncologist on Monday. I had a Decipher score done at recurrence - not at original diagnosis - and it was in the high risk range. Although I wish I had known that at the beginning, I would have done exactly the same thing. At age 56 when I had surgery - relatively young in prostate treatment terms - I regained urinary and sexual function within a few months. The reason I got checked for my PSA since my 30s was that my Dad got prostate cancer around age 70 and got the “seeds” therapy. He didn’t die of prostate cancer but his experience shaped my choices. My urologist and I always agree that our goal is that I die from something else - maybe with, but NOT of, prostate cancer. There are so many new and emerging treatments that are very encouraging. But I know it is my job to stay active and focused on my treatment so I can have those extra years with my family and friends. The job and the hobbies and the vacations won’t be there if I’m not there. I also remember good advice from my high school teacher: “Don’t worry about making the right choice: make a choice and then make it right.”
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9 Reactions@jpfirststate
My father died of prostate cancer at 88. I remember when he told me Lupron stopped working. He had radiation as his initial treatment. I decided to have surgery since radiation didn’t work for him. 3 1/2 years later, it came back and I had radiation. Turns out I got BRCA2 from my mother, so my prostate cancer keeps coming back four total reoccurrence so far. Started this 16 years ago, however at 62.
The drugs we have today work really great. They have kept me alive 12 years after radiation. Prostate cancer has become a chronic disease for almost everyone not a deadly disease.
I am now on Orgovyx and Nubeqa it has kept me undetectable for 29 months.
Have you had hereditary, genetic testing? Having a father get prostate cancer more than doubles your chance of getting it, but is there something in your genetics that is causing you to get it young? My brother got it at 77 because he doesn’t have BRCA2 like I do.
You do want to get this genetic test because if you have a problem, your kids may have inherited it and they need to know there is a risk besides the fact that they have a high risk of prostate cancer.
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6 Reactions@jpfirststate
Great information, especially like the "Don’t worry about making the right choice: make a choice and then make it right.”
Ray
HIGH RISK = NO ON RP
Go here and compare your probability of cure vs the major treatment pathways
https://www.prostatecancerfree.org/compare-prostate-cancer-treatments/
Don’t use cellphone use a computer.
There are 3 graphs, one each for low, intermediate, and high risk. Sounds like you might be high? (Risk of recurrence after treatment).
The elipses can be confusing. I put a dot on each eclipse and drew a line to make it easier to intemperate. If you need help readin the charts get it.
You will notice that chance of cure starts well for RP but drops as risk increases. At high risk you are down to 40-50% chance of cure.
Compare that to radiation options.
@groundhogy
My Gleason score was 3+4=7 and PSA < 10 (5.2) with MRI biopsy showing positive in two sides. That made me T2C, which in 2018, put me at "intermediate risk" and surgery was a valid option given my desire to get my PSA down to zero and not down to some "low" number. My post-surgery biopsy showed no seminal vesicle involvement, no lymph nodes, no extra-prostatic extension and the Gleason score matched the pre-surgery classification. Decipher genomic classifier test was NOT standard of care at that time and therefore the test was not run. Only after hitting the magical .2 number for recurrence did they run the Decipher test, which did inform the decision to add ADT to the treatment plan for 6 months. It would be easy to go back to 2018 and say I was high-risk based on a test from 2026. When I consulted with the radiation oncologist back then - the same one who just did my salvage treatments - he told me radiation would be well-tolerated but he could also tell that I remembered what happened to my dad, and how surgery was taken off the table once I opted for radiation. He actually ordered a genomic test on my first biopsy sample- the Oncotype DX test (which is no longer used) - and it said I was "low-risk" at .08. Talked to the oncology team today and they said I could explore the genetic testing if I wanted. I am married, but don't have kids, so I asked if it would shape my treatment in any way - and, right now - it probably wouldn't.
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2 Reactions@jpfirststate You echo my thoughts exactly - what happens if radiation fails?
The author arrives at the conclusion that brachytherapy +EBRT+ ADT
gives the best results overall and perhaps he is correct but that still leaves about 20% of men for whom this will not be successful.
Again, it comes down to personal choice: put all your eggs in one basket or perhaps, not.
Phil
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1 Reaction@pnutbarm, how are you doing with the treatment decision making? Have you and your specialists decided on the course of treatment that works best for you?