@leeleip Part of the hurt is disbelief, and the other part is probably knowing you would not have treated HER that way. When I moved back to my home state from Fl. I looked up my best friend from high school. She pretty much cut me off when I told her at a lunch date my brother had recently, (at the time) committed suicide. I was flabbergasted. She is a nurse. You just never really know someone until you need them I guess. I'm pretty much past trying to figure people out.