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Anyone feel they made major life mistakes that are not forgivable?
Aging Well | Last Active: Apr 10 10:47am | Replies (84)Comment receiving replies
@isadora2021 I blame myself because I chose to marry my husband even after I saw him get angry at me about something. At the time, I did not realize his anger would be a recurring trait. I did not realize his anger would get passed down to our sons. Our older son keeps an emotional distance from both of us and doesn’t talk to either of us much. Our younger son has worse anger issues but thinks that others are at fault and refuses to go into therapy. He calls us every day. Even if I say that since my sons are adults, I am not responsible, but I still feel emotional pain.
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@elainer12 It must be very hard wondering how your life would have turned out if you had been able to understand how deep your husband’s anger is and how much it determines his character. I am sorry you’ve suffered so much. If only we could all have 20/20 hindsight and able to go back and have another go 😞
I strongly believe in a loving God who looks at everything. It sounds to me you entered into marriage in good faith keen to build a happy home. Therapy hasn’t helped you, and I hope you can find a pastor instead who can help relieve the heavy burden on your soul and help you to live the rest of your life lighter and less burdened.