The hopeful realist: Meet @mamajite

TERESA: What brought you to Mayo Clinic Connect?

@mamajite: I have a rare, genetic type of lung cancer. It is a non-small cell lung cancer with the germline (inherited) EGFR T790M mutation. I was hoping to find and connect with other people on Mayo Clinic Connect who might share my diagnosis. And I did!

TERESA: What motivates you to take part in Mayo Clinic Connect?

@mamajite: Living with cancer ranges from difficult to devastating. Being in community with others who are experiencing the same challenges reminds me that I’m not alone. Honestly, some of the best advice and support comes from other people who have firsthand knowledge of the symptoms and treatments. Both of my parents had cancer, so I was an affected family member and caregiver before getting my own diagnosis. Having that full circle perspective helps me to empathize and understand others. I try to contribute as a hopeful realist. 

TERESA: What about Mayo Clinic Connect makes you feel comfortable to share and to be open with the community?

@mamajite: I appreciate that Connect is a well moderated and focused online forum. I love that it’s accessible to so many folks looking for information and support. 

TERESA: What support groups do you participate in?

@mamajite: I am most active in the Lung Cancer support group. 

TERESA: Tell us about a meaningful moment you've experienced on Mayo Clinic Connect. 

@mamajite: Referring back to your first question, I met someone else on Connect who shares my specific type of inherited lung cancer. To put it in perspective, the germline T790M mutation is found in only 0.3-0.9% of lung adenocarcinomas. Connecting allowed us to share important firsthand information and resources. I’m very grateful.

TERESA: What surprised you the most about Mayo Clinic Connect?

@mamajite: The generosity that people living with lung cancer (and other conditions) show toward helping others and their caregivers. 

TERESA: What energizes you, or how do you find balance in your life?

@mamajite: I have a wonderful husband and I’m a mom of a high schooler and a middle schooler. I give most of my limited energy to my family and they return so much love and support. I’m very blessed.

TERESA: Tell us about your favorite pastime or activity.

@mamajite: I’m a fan of the band, BTS. We have a terrific community of fans. I’m looking forward to seeing them in concert this year, with my daughter and friends! When I was first diagnosed in 2023, my oncologist’s expectations were grim. The band was on a hiatus to do their mandatory military service in South Korea. I wondered if I would still be here for their next tour. So attending their concerts this year feels triumphant! 💜

TERESA: Do you have a favorite quote, life motto or personal mantra?

@mamajite: Lately I’ve been reflecting on these lyrics from BTS’s song, Spring Day. “The morning will come again. No darkness, no season can last forever.” 

TERESA: What do you love about where you live or vacation? 

@mamajite: I live in Seattle and the Pacific Northwest is one of the most beautiful places because it has both mountains and sea.

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