@beekindtobees and @paul1940, please see the Community Guidelines https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/about-connect/tab/community-guidelines/

Mayo Clinic Connect is a public forum. To share personal contact information, it is better to use the secure private message function. I’d like to underline the benefit of sharing in the group discussions. By posting in the discussions in the group you benefit from the knowledge and experience of many members.