My Story
On February 9, 2026, when I was 40 years old, my life changed in an instant.
I was involved in what initially seemed like a minor car accident. I had the green light and was only driving about 15 miles per hour when a young woman who did not have a driver’s license turned left in front of me and hit me head-on. The impact totaled my car.
Police and an ambulance arrived at the scene, but at the time I thought I was okay. I was shaken up, but I didn’t feel seriously hurt, so I declined going in the ambulance and went home.
Not long after I got home, I realized something didn’t feel right. My daughter drove me to the hospital. We waited in the waiting room for about two hours. I felt “off,” but I wasn’t dizzy yet and I was still able to walk.
When I finally went into the triage room, everything suddenly changed.
Out of nowhere, I heard a loud whooshing sound in my ear. Then the entire room began spinning violently. My eyes began moving uncontrollably back and forth. I started vomiting and suddenly could not stand or walk. It was one of the most terrifying physical sensations I have ever experienced.
In the emergency room they performed a CT scan, but it didn’t show anything abnormal. The doctors did not yet know what was wrong.
Two days later they finally performed an MRI. That’s when they discovered the truth — I had suffered a stroke in my cerebellum, which doctors later determined was caused by whiplash from the car accident.
I was immediately flown to another hospital for specialized care.
The stroke left me with severe and life-altering symptoms. I now suffer from serious balance problems and severe trunk ataxia, which makes walking extremely difficult. I also experience double vision, and the vision in my left eye is blurry.
The left side of my face has also become more paralyzed. It was already partially paralyzed from a previous trauma — a gunshot wound I survived during a home invasion — but the stroke made the paralysis even worse.
This stroke has affected every part of my life.
Today, I am in a wheelchair, working every day to recover and adapt to a reality I never expected.
But I am still here.
And I am still fighting.
@almafe85 That's a pretty terrifying story. I'm sure you realize your recovery journey is only beginning.
I had a lacunar ischemic stroke, and it required nearly a month of hospitalization just to be well enough to travel home. (I had my stroke 350 miles from home). That was more than seven years ago, and I'm still making progress.
Of course, no two strokes alike, and two stroke patients are alike. But stay positive and be sure to reach out here on Connect. Feel free to send me a private message and I'll be happy to help in any way I can. You might also consider finding a local Stroke Support Group. It can't help a lot.
You definitely have the right attitude! As I was told early on, recovery was entirely up to me -- there's not much medically anyone can do in a case like mine, where brain cells are simply gone and can't be replaced.
Stay strong!