My Story So Far - 53yo / PSA 130
Hi everyone. New to this forum and this club we are all in. Just before Christmas, my routine check up yielded a PSA of 130 (!). I'd missed a few years of annuals...3 years prior my PSA was in the normal range. Very frightening.
MRI (PI-RADS 5), biopsy (4+4, with 11 of 12 samples positive) and then to PET/CT to determine if it had spread beyond the prostate. My urologist was kind about it but was clear that I should expect metastatic disease, given the breadth of cancer in the prostate and my PSA. My amazing wife and I were incredibly despondent.
Somehow, some way, the PET/CT showed no spread - not even to the lymph nodes. Some seminal invasion on one side, but it's all still in the prostate. Started hormone therapy 10 days ago (Lupron + XTandi) - it's early still but side effects are minimal.
I'm separately working with one of the best hospitals and surgeons in the country - he recommends surgery as he believes he can eliminate it. Consult next week with radiologist. Both surgery and radiation are equally successful in terms of cancer control - I should be able to get this well under control and possibly eradicate it. Side effects, near and long term, are the primary considerations.
My NY urologist recommends radiation only, given the high PSA and 11/12 nodes. The cancer is aggressive and I likely have microscopic spread - so recurrence is likely and, according to him, radiation post surgery can have worse side effects on continence and potency than radiation alone. I've read that radiation only can lead to bowel issues down the road, which I want to avoid at all costs. NY guy says that's not been a concern he has seen.
The surgeon clearly believes he can get it out, and gave me a 70% chance of saving the nerves. He didn't share the view of the post surgery radiation concerns, even if it returns. The surgeon's associate said that in his opinion, surgery is the way to go, because they are in control of what can be spared in the process. Radiation hits a larger area and is more prone to unwanted side effects. So the stories are varied. Lesson: get a number of opinions.
After the radiation consultation (and a second we will set up elsewhere), we will make our decision, which is likely to be surgery. I'm young. I like the idea of getting it out of me, especially since it's mostly contained in the prostate. If I did radiation alone, any subsequent prostatectomy that would be required in an emergency would almost certainly cause troubling side effects with continence etc.
My wife and I pushed very hard for all of the information, testing, etc, to move along as quickly as possible. I strongly recommend this. Don't wait - dive into all of it. It's there even though you wish it weren't, and there's no reason to wish otherwise and delay. Dive in and dive in hard to the research and understanding. Your prognosis is likely better than you fear, and education will help you understand that.
I may be having surgery as early as next month. But for anyone reading this just diagnosed: your story will be different. Make no assumptions - my doctors have almost never seen a PSA of 130 with no spread. But here I am. Your story will be yours and unique. There is truly a lot to learn and digest. And in the end, make the best decision for you. This is truly a manageable cancer in most circumstances, which itself was something that I found hard to get my head around.
If anyone has thoughts or insight from a similar story on the removal / radiation journey, I'd welcome them. I know that radiation is now more precise than it was. But my primary goal is a long life, even if I lose potency now. My gut is saying to remove it. Does that suck? Totally. But that's the hand I have to play, so I'm going to play it as strongly as I'm able - whatever that turns out to be.
I find all of your stories helpful in knowing this is a large club that I'm joining. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, concerns and responses - on this thread and others. It has helped me find a way, and I know it will continue to.
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Some thoughts:
Have you had a biomarker (genomic) test like Decipher, Prolaris, OncotypeDx, or one of the dozen others in order to look for genes, proteins, and tumor markers that tell more about the prostate cancer?
Have you had a genetic (germline) test to see if you have inherited any prostate cancer-related gene mutations from either of your parents. (like BRCA1/2, ATM,
CHEK2, HOXB13, MSH2, etc.)?
Lupron often takes quite a few weeks before you experience side-effects. Are you tracking your testosterone level? That’s what will correspond with the Lupron side-effects kicking in.
You mentioned your concern with “radiation only can lead to bowel issues down the road, which I want to avoid at all costs.” Remember that what radiation doesn’t hit won’t be impacted. I asked my radiation oncologist to work with the team dosimetrist and physicist to show me how much radiation entry dose, scatter, and exit dose might affect nearby otherwise healthy tissues and organs. We then focused on avoiding those collateral impacts. (I’m now almost 5 years post-proton radiation treatments and have experienced no bowel issues.)
Also, the surgeon’s comment about “Radiation hits a larger area and is more prone to unwanted side effects” might be a valid point. (Both radiation and prostatectomy are “full organ” treatments.) The key (once again) is for the radiation to only hit the prostate. With today’s modern radiation technology and techniques, that can be accomplished.
My urologist (a surgeon) also told me that he “clearly believed he could get it out, and gave me a xx% chance of saving the nerves,” but added that he “would only know that for sure once he got in there.” That gave me pause….. (Also, remember that “saving the nerves” is medical-speak for possibly 100% of both nerves, or 100% of one and none of the other, or 75/25, or 50/50, or 25/25, or….. They really have no sure way to know until they get in there. Even touching/moving the nerves sometimes damages them.)
My radiation oncologist and I spent much time researching all possible short, medium, and long-term side-effects from radiation (see attached charts), and then spent time discussing methods to minimize or avoid each one.
You also mentioned that “If I did radiation alone, any subsequent prostatectomy that would be required in an emergency would almost certainly cause troubling side effects with continence etc.” As it turns out, that has some truth to it (if a salvage prostatectomy were the only salvage option), but it’s is old-school thinking that doesn’t consider modern treatment techniques. (And there are rarely “emergency prostatectomies.”)
If there is local recurrence after initial radiation, choice of treatment would depend on the nature of the recurrence; there are other options - focal therapy (e.g., cryo), brachytherapy, SBRT (because they’re each very targetable), and yes even re-radiation can be done in some cases. So, I wouldn’t let the old “no options if recurrence” philosophy change my initial treatment decision.
As for your doctors having “…almost never seen a PSA of 130 with no spread,” remember that ~15% of prostate cancers are PSMA-negative and won’t show up on a PSMA PET scan even when prostate cancer is known to be present. Something to consider and discuss with them…..
As you alluded earlier, removing it brings no statistically significant success over radiating it. In fact, if there has already been metastasis - which you seem to think that there has been microscopic spread already - then, that would make your treatment decision fairly straightforward.
(In my case, I was diagnosed with low-grade, localized prostate cancer at 56y/o, spent 9 years on active surveillance (having much time to thoroughly research my treatment options), then chose to have proton radiation treatment at 65y/o. That was about 5 years ago.
For me, successful treatment and quality of life were equal priorities. That understanding set the foundation for my radiation oncologist, medical oncologist, and me coming up with a sound treatment plan. And I never lost potency.)
Yes, there is certainly a lot to learn and digest, but in the end you have to make the best decision for you (because you’re the one that has to live with the decision).
Wishing you the best with your decision.
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I'm considering Proton therapy. May I ask how many sessions did you do and was hormone therapy added? Both RO's from Centers of Excellence recommended a Brachey boost along with Proton (5 sessions) or IRMT (23 sessions)
@copyman For my localized, PSA of 7.976, Gleason 7(4+3), I had 28 sessions of proton radiation (during April-May 2021), + 6 months (two 3-month injections) of Eligard; I also had SpaceOAR Vue injected. (My PSA results are attached.)
Dr. Rossi has a lot of information about proton in his portion of this 2023 Mid-Year PCRI conference. (My RO and I discussed many of these same topics in early 2021): https://www.youtube.com/live/WTqPnSRYtW4
—> Starting at 3:38:45
There’s a Q&A session at the end with these interesting topics:
—> 4:25:00: Proton & Insurance
—> 4:30:45: Proton SBRT
—> 4:34:30: Proton & ADT
—> 4:36:55: Proton & Supplements
—> 4:39:00: Proton & Diet
—> 4:40:00: Proton & Repurposed Drugs (Statins; Metformin)
—> 4:42:00: Proton & Post-Treatment Side-Effects Urinary
—> 4:46:00: Proton & Hyperbaric Therapy
—> 4:48:15: Proton & Pre-Existing Bowel Issues
—> 4:49:40: Proton & Hydrogel
—> 4:53:00: Proton & Re-radiation
—> 4:56:30: What happens to the prostate?
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You don’t mention anything about your case. What was your Gleason score? Did you have a PSMA PET scan to see if there had been any spread. Did you have an MRI before your biopsy?
Were any of these things found in the biopsy intraductal, cribriform, Seminal vesicle invasion, EPE or ECE. (Extraprostatic extensions extra capsular extensions). They can make the cancer much more aggressive.
Did you get a decipher test to see if you have a reoccurrence possible and if so, how long before it’s likely?.
Did you get a hereditary, genetic test? Getting prostate cancer as young as you are could be because of genetics, I got it at 62 because my father died from it and my mother gave me BRCA2. My brother got it at 77 because he didn’t have BRCA2. Were there any cancers in your family breast cancer, Prostate cancer and pancreatic cancer Are frequently caused by genetics and makes the test even more necessary. The test is covered by insurance many medical facilities require this to be done, especially for somebody that gets prostate cancer so young.
@prettypass2000 Thank you so much for your note and the clarification. I think I was too casual with my wording. The point I was trying to make is that there was no metatstatic disease, which was the huge suprise and relief. Your point is exactly right - mine is Stage 3 due to the seminal invasion. Thanks so much for the clarification.
@hawkeye612 This was so helpful. Thank you. I hope your recovery is going well and would love to hear your story. Was your decision for surgery based solely on the side effects your friend experienced from radiation? We had our radiology consultation today and the (very lovely) doctor felt that side effects could usually be mitigated. He did identify the issues your friend is unfortunately experiencing as a possibility. Thanks again for sharing. Best wishes for your normal happy life ahead, as you properly state!
General update: we had our radiology consultation today. The radiologist was very knowledgeable and kind. We discussed how the technology has come along in terms of being able to target the radiation more precisely, reducing collateral damage. That said, there are no long term studies on the current techniques (since they are new), so it's difficult to say with certainty what the side effects will ultimately be, particularly long term.
The radiologist seemed certain that surgery would result in lost of potency. He also explained that my cancer seemed to be going up towards the seminal vesicle, rather than towards the rectum. This means than the rectal spacing gel could be used despite the fact that they only recently started considering usage of that for high risk cancers like mine. (The concern is that the gel ends up "pushing" cancer cells into the rectal wall, which is the opposite result of what the gel is meant to prevent.)
We remain intrigued by the possibility of more limited side effects of radiation, but it still feels like surgery is the way to go. At least the side effects are known (seems like radiation can be better but can also be worse, particularly long term). Plus I'm young. Plus having a surgeon go in there can yield more relevant information. We realize that there will likely be recurrence but the more narrowly targeted radiation for those "flares" can be far better handled than the broader radiation that would be required as a primary treatment.
The radiologist seemed clear that being on ADT gives us time to do our research and while I should have treatment by May or June, there's time to explore the alternatives. All of your comments and answers have been very helpful. Thank you.
I'm mindful of the one person in this thread whose friend had significant urinary issues after radiation - something the radiologist mentioned today as a possibility. Are there others that received radiation who have side effects (or lack thereof) to share?
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2 Reactions@mark10517ny Your thought process on this is sound. Although I hated the idea of surgery, I chose it simply to have a Plan B if the cancer recurred.
At your young age that is very likely simply from a timeframe point of view: you have a LOT of living left to do!
Were you in your mid 70’s radiation might be a better choice. But surgical removal will give your doctors - and you - so much more information about your particular disease…radiation will not.
Wishing you the best on your treatment,
Phil
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Since the surgeon said they can probably spare the nerves, 70% chance, he can probably at least spare the nerves on one side? That can make a big difference when it comes to getting an erection after surgery.
If they can’t, you should consider and really review getting an implant, That can resolve the problems with getting an erection for the long-term and it Has very high satisfaction with people that have done it.
Sounds like you got some good information from the radiation oncologist. You don’t mention what type of radiation he recommends is it SBRT, VMAT or IMRT? Do they have MRI guided SBRT? Do they have proton radiation? The newer types of radiation can make a difference as he has told you.
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