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Living with PN, do you find yourself retreating from life?

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I am new to this group. I have had polyneuropathy for several years, and have had many balance issues and dropfoot. Using a cane for many years, I find a cane with a personality to be a conversation opener. Mine is made from diamond willow and it has been the start of many good interactions with other folk. I have continued to be an avid gardener, and the many falls- some serious- has made the hiring of young people nessesary to perform any bending in gardens. This association has brightened my life immensly. The opportunity to be a mentor and friend to youth is a blessing that makes pain and frustration easier to bear. I certainly don't need all the produce I grow in my garden, but I am a provider of clean organic produce to many of my friends and neighbors. Gardening helps me too, to satisfy my need to be in harmony with nature, as my walks are limited, and hiking, and solitude in nature are but memories I cherish. I will never forget the reply from an older fried when I asked how he was dealing with the loss of his sight as he approached his 100th. he said," It's kind of neat, you know; I've never been blind before". may we all approach the challenges we are facing with such an attitude. (He lived until he was 106)

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Hello, @papi!
Welcome! Make yourself at home! You'll meet some great people around here. I, too, have polyneuropathy; mine is chronic idiopathic large-fiber PN, so no pain, but, like you, plenty of balance issues. I also know what you mean by a cane "with personality" being a great conversation starter. 🙂 If you happened to see any of my earlier posts, you may know that I carry a wooden cane with a faux silver wolf's head handle. I choose that cane purposely because as a child one of my favorite movies was Lon Chaney's Wolf Man in which his uncle (Claude Raines) fends off werewolves with his wolf's head cane. So, as you say, a cane with personality can be a great conversation starter. I'll end this here. It's lunchtime. But I wanted to at least say hello annd welcome you to Connect!
Best wishes, Ray (@ray666)