Hello @gigi76 You are wise to be planning ahead. These decisions are difficult but also so very important. Colleen and Scott have provided you with some great ideas and directions. Your husband's doctor might be able to put you in touch with a social worker or other professional who might be able to assist you in this decision. There are also elder law attorneys that you can consult who deal with this type of situation on a regular basis. Best wishes to you and your husband and keep in touch with us at Mayo Connect. Teresa