@crabby55 thank you so much for your post. I think your friend is absolutely right. I used to be upset doing things alone, but you are right, if I don’t do things solo, I am being an enabler. I am fortunate to have a good group of friends and I need to let them help by getting me out without feeling guilty. I’m sorry for your situation, but you seem like a strong person and your strength will definitely help me. Thank you!!