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Survivors of toxic relationship with a Narcissist: Let's Connect
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@hopeful33250 yes absolutely.. I had to leave with nothing. It was my only way out and he has locked me out of all of our bank accounts. He moved all our money. He had been doing it for months. I’m 66 years old and I’m on Social Security. I am having to start my life over at 66 years old. I just can’t afford it at this time.. I’ve been searching for support groups and I’ve been involved there. But I think I need more. I’m still in disbelief that I allowed it to happen. I’m in disbelief that he wasn’t the man that I thought he was. There’s just so many things that my mind just keeps playing over and over and over and my health is declining. I have been to my doctors. They are all aware of it. I know I can get through it. I just have to find a way.
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It really is important for you to get some quality counseling. You need to find some access to counseling services. Check with your local Easter Seals to see if they offer counseling services. Often, the fee is much lower. Also, you might consider connecting with a church to see what counseling they can provide.
You will need support in order to turn off: "so many things that my mind that keep playing over and over again."
Will you seek professional help?
@sheila1960 Do you have access to YouTube? If so, please look up Dr. Ramani. I understand not having money and I applaud you for your strength and resilience in dealing with the abuse of a narcissist. I found Dr. Ramani several years ago. My father was diagnosed with narcissitic personality disorder and after I got sober 8 years ago, I found myself in a relationship (not sexual) with a person who turned out to be narcissistic. This person blew my world apart as they were also in recovery and I was desperate to remain sober. Dr. Ramani's videos helped me understand not only narcissism but also how to deal with what remained of me. I hope this helps. Hang in there. You have taken a huge step and I applaud your strength.
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@sheila1960 I will be 61 next month. left six months ago with my car, clothes, and my mom's ashes. I lost everything else because of him. Luckily I am able to stay with a daughter and her family. I had to move several states over, and starting over in an unfamiliar state and city. It was scary at first but after being here for six months, my mind is finally starting to clear and I'm starting to accept my surroundings. I hope that you are able to find the support and help as you get back on your feet. I'm here for support if you need someone to talk to!