@gingerw

Hmm…great question. I think perhaps looking at my family with new eyes. So many things make sense knowing autism runs in the family. Through self-disclosure, I was able to help a younger relative who was struggling.

But I learn new things about myself and my needs every day. I found an autistic therapist for autistics through AUSM, and I am shocked to notice how much my life has improved since I allowed myself to drop the mask.

I have true friends, allow myself to enjoy my special interests, and don’t have as many meltdowns and burnouts.

It’s never easy - being autistic comes with a whole package of physical/experiential differences - but at least I know who I am now.

There will be grief and anger as you re-process your life. It’s normal and you will emerge on the other side.

I wish you well.