What were your early symptoms before diagnosed with a Parotid Tumor?

Posted by jules26 @jules26, Dec 27, 2025

Hello, I'm currently experiencing some symptoms and have fallen down the medical rabbit hole. All research and information and AI points toward a Parotid Glad Tumor. I have cut out the middle man and have made an appt. with an ENT/Otolaryngologist at the Mayo Clinic in Phoenix/Scottsdale. My symptoms started about 10 years ago but were quite minor. I found a small pea size lump beneath and slightly behind the corner/angle of my jaw on my left side. It was not visible but I could feel it if I really felt for it. I didn't think much of it at the time. Over the years I could feel it getting slightly larger but I'm not one to run to the doctor every time I see or feel something or get sick. About 5 years ago the lump became visible if I turned my head up and to the right and if I stretched my neck/jaw. It was still fairly small. About 2 years ago, I turned my neck a certain way and felt a sharp pain in the same area, like I pinched something. I started monitoring the lump. It has gotten quite a bit larger now, maybe quarter size from the outside view. It is quite painful if pressed on. It does not seem to move much at all. I will admit, finances have had some part in the decision to not go to a doctor sooner along with not wanting to hear bad news. However, I am now feeling a sense of fullness in the area between my ear and corner of my jaw and I now have tinnitus in my left ear. I also feel like something is in my throat or just doesn't feel right in my throat (pressure) on the same left side. It's not painful and does not affect my swallowing. My appointment is on Jan. 6th. Preparing for the worst and hoping for the best. Has anyone else had these same symptoms or can anyone share their experience and symptoms pre-diagnosis. Thank you in advance for any insight.

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I hope your appointment went well in January.
I had a parotid gland removed due to the high-grade neuroendocrine carcinoma tumor. The surgery was successful, but it was intense, a 6 hour surgery unfortunately I had to have the main facial nerve removed as well, the cancer was attached to the nerve as well. I have permanent facial paralysis. The surgery was 8 years ago. I had pain in my left jaw area. It was very painful and I had a hard time opening my mouth to talk or eat. I went to the after hours clinic and they thought a tooth abscess. I did have an abscess and had it cleaned out, but still the pain remained on my left jaw area. They finally did a ct scan and found the tumor. Don't ignore pain or lumps, they get more expensive when you ignore them. There is always help out there. Your life is important. Ask questions and never stop researching. Be your advocate.

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I hope your appointment went well in January.
I had a parotid gland removed due to the high-grade neuroendocrine carcinoma tumor. The surgery was successful, but it was intense, a 6 hour surgery unfortunately I had to have the main facial nerve removed as well, the cancer was attached to the nerve as well. I have permanent facial paralysis. The surgery was 8 years ago. I had pain in my left jaw area. It was very painful and I had a hard time opening my mouth to talk or eat. I went to the after hours clinic and they thought a tooth abscess. I did have an abscess and had it cleaned out, but still the pain remained on my left jaw area. They finally did a ct scan and found the tumor. Don't ignore pain or lumps, they get more expensive when you ignore them. There is always help out there. Your life is important. Ask questions and never stop researching. Be your advocate.

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@denisebrown67 Thank you. My appointment was rescheduled due to imaging needs and I went in yesterday. I have a 3cm mass they think is benign. They put the order in for a MRI, so waiting on that to get scheduled. They said they will be removing it but at this time it will most likely be a superficial parotidectomy. We shall see. So sorry to here of your diagnosis and difficult surgery. Glad to hear it was successful. I finally don't ignore signs and symptoms now that I have gotten older. A bit anxious about surgery since it will only be my second, first being a partial hysterectomy. I do keep researching. First thing I did when I got home from the appoint. Started researching next steps and expectations..............never ending. Hope you're doing well since your surgery and recovery.

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@jules26
Your post is fascinating to me because you just described what I went through with a parotid gland tumor. Yes to starting at pea size, yes to getting harder over the years. But I waited 5 years not 10. I also had to wait until I had medical insurance. I had a gut feeling about "the lump" as I called it, when it hardened. I knew it was cancer.

I want to tell you that I had a slow growing cancer, cell type was acinic cell carcinoma. I had a parotidectomy and then they found it had spread onto the side of my face so it was just in time. But because that is Stage II, I went through radiation treatments. This was 30 years ago. The cancer has been in remission.

I worked as an RN in oncology when I got sick. I need to tell you to "research" the 10 Warning Signs of Cancer.
You cannot "ask AI" while you have been living with a lump (a warning sign of cancer) for 10 years. It might help you make priorities around your health if I could tell you that it was much more stressful going through those parotid gland tumor symptoms, than it was to actually go to an ENT surgeon. He touched the gland and told me, I believe you have a tumor. Surgery was scheduled.

I went to Stanford Medical Center with a good doctor who I trusted. Before I saw him another doctor sent me for a biopsy. What I learned at Stanford is the parotid gland is a complex gland and cannot be biopsied! accurately. If a doctor tells you that you need surgery, at this point I really encourage you to listen.

I hope you check back here after January 6th! You can pm me here is you want to.

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Do you mind sharing who the doctor you saw at Stanford is?

Thanks,

John

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My MRI appt is scheduled for 2/22 and surgery will be after that. Could anyone recommend their best foods for the first 2 weeks post op?

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Do you mind sharing who the doctor you saw at Stanford is?

Thanks,

John

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@yearofthecow Hope you saw that I sent you a private message Re: my doctor at Stanford.

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@jules26
Your post is fascinating to me because you just described what I went through with a parotid gland tumor. Yes to starting at pea size, yes to getting harder over the years. But I waited 5 years not 10. I also had to wait until I had medical insurance. I had a gut feeling about "the lump" as I called it, when it hardened. I knew it was cancer.

I want to tell you that I had a slow growing cancer, cell type was acinic cell carcinoma. I had a parotidectomy and then they found it had spread onto the side of my face so it was just in time. But because that is Stage II, I went through radiation treatments. This was 30 years ago. The cancer has been in remission.

I worked as an RN in oncology when I got sick. I need to tell you to "research" the 10 Warning Signs of Cancer.
You cannot "ask AI" while you have been living with a lump (a warning sign of cancer) for 10 years. It might help you make priorities around your health if I could tell you that it was much more stressful going through those parotid gland tumor symptoms, than it was to actually go to an ENT surgeon. He touched the gland and told me, I believe you have a tumor. Surgery was scheduled.

I went to Stanford Medical Center with a good doctor who I trusted. Before I saw him another doctor sent me for a biopsy. What I learned at Stanford is the parotid gland is a complex gland and cannot be biopsied! accurately. If a doctor tells you that you need surgery, at this point I really encourage you to listen.

I hope you check back here after January 6th! You can pm me here is you want to.

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@jw9 i found a tiny lump in sept and was told to go to my dermatologist by family doctor. I left there and called my ENT office. went in and had a ct scan and it showed tumor. It is hard and at times painful. They sent me to Stanford and having surgery in March. I am worried about cancer. very happy with my doctor.

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I discovered mine in Sept had a ct scan and was sent to Stanford. It is growing and also it bothers my ear like something in it and if i sleep on that side it gets very sore. I am having surgery in March.

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A meningemas brain tumor was discovered in 2018 while in the hospital for something totally unrelated. I've bee watched by a neuro-surgeon for that ever since. He continues to push for removal and chemo and radiation. I am now 89 and still refusing. He and I continue to follow the brain tumor (now with a large attached edema) with MRIs with and without contrast. In the Fall, he advised me that he'd been seeing a parotid gland tumor in my left cheek but the mass was now growing. I finally got an appointment with an ENT who sent me to the hospital for an outpatient biopsy which was recently done. Bottom line is they are just watching. I have no pain from either tumor (brain or parotid gland) and nothing visible inside my cheek or outside. At my age, I am not looking to do anything "eventful" but I am concerned. My mouth seems dry all the time, I have noticed. And my teeth roots seem to be march fast, thus causing extractions. The teeth I still have are all my own, but I'm wondering if this parotid gland malady is now affecting the roots of the left side of my teet,

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@rmbs
I'm seeing your post a month later... regarding your mouth being dry: I have had a parotid tumor that I couldn't seek care for because of no medical insurance. It definitely caused dry mouth and also affected my gums and teeth. I was in my 30's though so when I could get insurance I had surgery and radiation treatments. I'm sorry you are going through this and wonder if it's dry mouth from the parotid tumor causing your dental problems, rather than the tumor affecting the roots of your mouth. Whatever it is, you have a good plan with medical care even if you are "just watching." Thinking of you.

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@rmbs
I'm seeing your post a month later... regarding your mouth being dry: I have had a parotid tumor that I couldn't seek care for because of no medical insurance. It definitely caused dry mouth and also affected my gums and teeth. I was in my 30's though so when I could get insurance I had surgery and radiation treatments. I'm sorry you are going through this and wonder if it's dry mouth from the parotid tumor causing your dental problems, rather than the tumor affecting the roots of your mouth. Whatever it is, you have a good plan with medical care even if you are "just watching." Thinking of you.

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@jw9
This was helpful and almost comforting! (Chuckle!) Seriously, you basically confirmed my plan. I recently postponed my normal 6-month dental check-up, as the dentist's office didn't have a clue what a parotid gland even is! Yikes! I'll be seeing the recent new-to-me-ENT specialist in a few months, and we'll go from there. I feel all this upper tooth recent root decay (and thus oral surgery to remove teeth) is connected with the parotid gland malady. You have been helpful and encouraging. (By the way, I'm 89 and still singing and dancing along! God is good!) Blessings to YOU! Ruthmarie

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If you underwent radiation after your surgery, dry mouth and dental issues including loss of teeth are an unfortunate side effect. I am 15 years post radiation and just lost 3 teeth. It is a never ending horrible gift. There is a prescription fluoride toothpaste that is used after normally brushing that can prevent cavities. Mine is made by "Rising" and called "Denta 5000 Plus." I see a periodontist and a dentist 2 times per year each for a total of 4 visits. I rotate and see one every 3 months. I still have lost 9 teeth due to radiation. I had Proton Therapy radiation so only half my mouth was irradiated. The right side of my mouth is healthy. Please do not wait to see a dentist. You can suffer necrosis of the jaw if you get a major infection. That would be a nightmare.
Good luck.

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