All good advice. But please listen. You need a doctor who will refer you to a neurological clinic where they will do the 3-4 hour work-up to determine your husband’s true mental issues. I kept pushing after those mini tests didn’t reveal what I knew was happening, and finally, finally, my husband’s real issues (sharp decline in executive functioning, as well as other issues) were discovered. Push, push, push until your concerns are confirmed. Help is available when they are. My thoughts are with you. Bette