I am, through necessity, interested in this too. The month before my April '25 radical prostatectomy (RP), the divorce from my wife of 32 years was finalized. I was looking forward to possibly finding a special new woman friend and potentially "wife", to include an active sex life. Up to the day before my RP, as a 70 year old man, I had a very capable/verile sexual response. I haven't had an erection in the last 10 months, including every other day use of Cialis since my RP. I have self-stimulated without erection to the point of orgasm, and was shocked those couple of times, that a rather uncontrolled and large amount of urine was ejaculated. THAT absolutely KILLED my conscious effort to "find a new woman." It would be the ultimate of humiliation to send a stream of urine into my new woman, or into a condom that couldn't hold the entire volume. So...I am growing increasingly lonely each and every day, as I await and hope for the ability to actually have an erection, that also may facilitate a dry orgasm without the urine flying out of my penis. If anyone knows a way to prevent that, please...offer it up!