@tammielynn Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect and to our Gynecologist Cancers Support Group. You already have one supportive post from @denisestlouie who as you can see worked closely with her oncologist and a specialist in holistic medicine.

There are some discussions here in our group on treatments for vulvar cancer including radiation therapy and chemotherapy. Here are some you might like to read through and see if these member posts answer your questions. Some of these discussions may be a few years old but they are still on our active list. If you choose to post on any of these your post will alert those who have posted there in past.

Radiation Therapy for Vulvar Cancer

-- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/radiation-therapy-for-vulvar-cancer/

Vulvar Cancer: Anyone Else?

-- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/vulvar-cancer-1/

Your final sentence captures what many of us have felt and still feel: "I feel like I’m on a life raft with no way to tell which way the wind is blowing."

What do your doctors say about moving into additional treatment?