Anyone else feel Isolated and not go out due to chronic pain?

Posted by joannef20 @joannef20, Dec 23, 2025

Hello, I’m new here, I was recommended to join and interact with others who are in a similar situation as myself, I don’t go out much due to chronic pain and I feel isolated, anyone else feel the same?

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@anniesezu812 I can totally relate. I have severe adhesive Arachnoiditis. I c am also fused, C3 thru my sacrum. I'm on pain meds, but i can't do a lot of activities & i'm alone & i get depressed. Used to work out 6 days a week. Now, i go to senior fitness classes as much as possible ( even if i can't do most of class) Isolation, for me, makes me feel like a Freak etc... Any time you feel lonley, please call or? I can't text or sit on my computer for long.. I am also single, so not much stimulation for me Love to hear from you Lauren

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@laurenseavertson789
Hello Lauren, i'll absolutely call. I can fully relate as well. I think i read your post about achronoditis ( spelling ??) and googled to see if I might have it. My spinal nerves are a mess due the inplanting/ removal of a spinal cord stimulator.
Send me your phone number...are you in U.S.?
I'm in Florida, so on Eastern time. Talk soon. Hang in there 🙏 💓

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Profile picture for laurenseavertson789 @laurenseavertson789

@anniesezu812 I can totally relate. I have severe adhesive Arachnoiditis. I c am also fused, C3 thru my sacrum. I'm on pain meds, but i can't do a lot of activities & i'm alone & i get depressed. Used to work out 6 days a week. Now, i go to senior fitness classes as much as possible ( even if i can't do most of class) Isolation, for me, makes me feel like a Freak etc... Any time you feel lonley, please call or? I can't text or sit on my computer for long.. I am also single, so not much stimulation for me Love to hear from you Lauren

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@laurenseavertson789
I'll message you privately tomorrow. Stay strong, its not easy💓

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Hi, I'm new here.
Wanted you guys to know that I can relate. I work at home, which is great, except that it wears my out, and I almost never go anywhere except to the doctor. I am tired of always hurting and tired of being tired. I guess I just needed to say that to people that really understand. Fibromyalgia lets you look normal while it tears you apart and tears away the things that make you happy that you can no longer do. All of this coming from an "optimistic" person, LOL. Just needed to get it out and rant tonight. Thanks for listening.

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Can anyone suggest a good antidepressant and pain medcation for chronic pelvic with restless legs, with no side effects?

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Every med has side effects. Pick your poison.

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@susanfrei
Im in Florida. Health care is terrible here. Where are you, if I may ask?

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Im in NJ but planning on moving to Massachusetts

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@sharshy
Everything has side effects, it is about trade offs. Constipation is difficult, but relief from pain is worth it. Cannabis helps my brain, however I have to be cautious if driving.

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@geezer43 I absolutely agree about constipation vs pain relief. There are many ways to help constipation. Non prescription drugs have plenty of side effects especially if you drink alcohol. Tylenol can damage the liver or kidneys. Advil or any NSAID can cause bleeding ulcers or really damage the liver if you consume alcohol.

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Hi, I'm new here.
Wanted you guys to know that I can relate. I work at home, which is great, except that it wears my out, and I almost never go anywhere except to the doctor. I am tired of always hurting and tired of being tired. I guess I just needed to say that to people that really understand. Fibromyalgia lets you look normal while it tears you apart and tears away the things that make you happy that you can no longer do. All of this coming from an "optimistic" person, LOL. Just needed to get it out and rant tonight. Thanks for listening.

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@lisaokc You speak the truth about Fibro. Sending an air hug!

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@lisaokc You speak the truth about Fibro. Sending an air hug!

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@charliegirl Hugs right back! TY ♥

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I’ve been bed bound for nearly 14 years. I’ve felt that many times. For me, what helps is doing things I enjoy at home (reading, games, digital colouring, spending time with cats). I am also an introvert, so my social needs are much lower. I don’t know if that helps you, but I hope you feel less alone. Gentle hug.

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I’ve been bed bound for nearly 14 years. I’ve felt that many times. For me, what helps is doing things I enjoy at home (reading, games, digital colouring, spending time with cats). I am also an introvert, so my social needs are much lower. I don’t know if that helps you, but I hope you feel less alone. Gentle hug.

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@catmeowm Bless your heart! You have a beautiful outlook. Sending hugs!♥

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