@dpayton
Hi Dpayton : ) - my hubby has cooked oatmeal every morning with soymilk with some water (about 2/3 soymilk and 1/3 water ). He adds some flax seed and cut up apples and he loves it very much. I add hemp seeds in mine and freeze dried strawberries , allspice, cinnamon, and some coconut oil (yummm, now I am hungry lol) . We use soymilk for smoothies too - it is very nice taste IMHO, naturally sweet and light.
We use "West Life" , organic one , unsweetened. We like that brand because it has nothing but soy in it. Some brands add sugar, or salt, or some thickeners which is not very healthy. I am sure that there are other good brands too - just be sure to read ingredients : )).

And thanks so much for asking : ))) < 3, my husband is doing great *knock the wood, and I am wishing you the same < 3.

@dpayton Try Ripple plant based milk. It is recommended by a prostate diet expert I heard on a podcast. I have been drinking it for two years. Excellent taste, but a bit pricy. I figure I’m worth it.