@brightwings....about pain med. I get a script for each month, lasts around 17-20 days. Then I go 10 days without, so I never have to have mgs bumped up. Every month they work. I have 10 days med free to reset my body. During that time...well...it's hard, but worth the break. I've had therapy galore, have a tens unit, feels good in the moment, but nothing lasting. Have lidocaine stick on patches, not strong enough or go deep enough. I've never been one to expect no pain in my life. Pain happens. Made peace with that a long time ago. Tolerated it. Exercised through it. Powered through. Now I am ready for relief. I don't want my meds controlling me. So I chose the ten day break. Won't try and tell ya my body hasn't developed dependency. It has and I am reminded of that during the first 6 of my ten days off. But, without the help, holding my grandkids, going places with hubby, doing my own shopping...none of that gets done by me due to pain. At this point, I don't care that my pain is masked. I care more that I get to participate in life, rather than just being a bystander. Correct attitude? Maybe not. Is it a healthy way to deal with the pain? No, but is a life spent sedentary good for me? No. I made my choice. I want to move, keep busy at both work and play.

Truly, I am glad for all who function well without the double edge sword pills. Good for you. Oh! Happy Mothers Day!!!!
Sounds like you're gonna have a great time. Yahoo!