@bille

I hope you get some good help at John Hopkins. Here is some information from the National Stroke Association regarding strokes as well as support groups, just click on the link,
https://www.stroke.org/we-can-help/
You and your husband might find it helpful to read through the website and become familiar with the information provided there. There is also a way you can input your city and state and find support groups. Support groups will help you realize that you are not alone, much like here on Connect.

I look forward to hearing from you again. Will you post an update after your appointment?