Eating disorders treatment in Northern VA or North Carolin suggestions

I have an eating disorder called ARFID(avoidant restrictive food intake disorder) and I’m looking for treatment programs either in the northern Virginia area (where I live) or it could be further out if residential—or in the Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill North Carolina area (where my mom lives). Could be day programs or live in. The point is quality.
My case is pretty severe- I’m in the hospital now with a nasal feeding tube because I lost so much weight that I got very sick as well as severely anxious. I have all kinds of things going on- it’s complicated. Depression, anxiety, my father just died on Thanksgiving, and I was diagnosed with gastroparesis in May of 2025 so I started severely restricting my diet so much that I became afraid to eat almost anything. Then I saw a specialist in November who said I probably don’t have it but I wasn’t able to take the full 4 hour gastric emptying test because I am in the hospital (it was scheduled for last week).
I’m happy to hear of anyone’s experiences with eating disorders and your recovery if you’d like to share.
Thank you so much!