@randallshields56 would add to that if my friend was concerned, id walk them through a couple scenario's. let them know you know how and what to do. who knows maybe say i have a health issue and don't want to scare you off if it rears its ugly head, i know how to handle this. I'm actually going thru something like this now, i told my friend the doctors are not worried and said they are working hard to get me on the right meds to keep my seizure's at bay. it helped calm her down enough we could visit more.