Hi Lori,
This IS the most amazing advice!!
I needed to hear this.
I will be eternally grateful to you for having sent me this, been feeling frozen.
I have basically been given a new starting point for my life, cancer free forevermore hopefully of ALL cancers - I am ready to move on NOW in January 2026!!
What I find difficult is the look of shock on people’s faces when they see me going for a walk or in a supermarket or coffee shop - 1 said, Lazarus risen from the dead, - find this sort of difficult.
I want to make a list of what “I” want to do in my life.
I’m going to post your quote on my wall:
Fear does not stop death. It stops life. And worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace.
Married. No children. Had 2 German Shepherd dogs. But our beautiful 10 yr old German Shepherd boy passed on 20 November 2025 from cancer, he was my soul dog, I miss him more than I can ever put into words. Everyday I’m trying to come to terms with his loss.
I’ll take your wonderful advice at the beginning of this New Year 2026 - to focus on my return to living life.
Happy New Year 2026 Lori!! wishing you and everyone on this site a healthy and happy year filled with success in everything we do!! Onwards and upwards
Good morning, Scottie! @steiner Sometimes it just takes a little nudge from someone ‘who’s been there’ to feel you have permission to now move forward! I’m so happy my message had that impact on you. Truly, I know what it’s like to have that rug pulled out from under and wonder if life ever returns. I had the good fortune to meet 2 people who had gone through almost my exact scenario. I met them when they were at their 2yr and 5 yr post checkups. Hearing their stories and seeing them so healthy gave me much needed hope! Since then I’ve become a mentor here to help others along their journey.
Actually, here’s my story if you’re interested. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/about-connect/newsfeed-post/mayo-clinic-connect-brings-together-2-women-with-leukemia-46-years-apart/
I hope you’ll consider popping into conversations to give other lymphoma members benefit of the wisdom you’ve picked up along your journey. A quick search found these related discussions to marginal zone lymphoma. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/search/
Oh gosh, being without a dog is so difficult and I’m very sorry for your loss. Losing our last golden a few year ago was just gut wrenching. I still can’t talk about him without tearing up. Maybe you’ll feel a little more confident now about possibly opening your home to another furry baby. ☺️
I’m not sure of your age but this discussion reminded me of an old quote from the late 1970s…”Today is the first day of the rest of your life!”
So keep on adding to your, let’s call it, The Lazarus List! That’s a fabulous idea! You’ve made my day!
I’ll be looking forward to seeing more of you in Connect. Will you let me know what you check off your list? ☺️