@cjme You are "preaching to the choir" with your post. I also have to weigh my emotions about unrealistic expecations about attending events, traveling, etc. Well meaning family and friends offer suggestions about going somewhere warm now that it's winter. But the thought of me handling everything is out of the question. Driving, packing all the medications, bringing the oxygen compresser and tanks, finding bathrooms . . . too much. Thank you for letting me add to your "dumpster guilt".