I was diagnosed with MCI two years ago. They weren’t sure if I’d develop dementia or what kind, but ruled out Alzheimer’s. I can still drive locally, on small rural roads I know well, mostly just to the grocery store and library. I find cooking and socializing to be very stressful, though I seem to do fine talking to store clerks & strangers. I guess what’s stressful about friends is that I might not remember things about them that I should know, including their names & names of their family members. I have a cat (which my doc says counts), I read a LOT, and I text & email family & friends.
My husband is my main support. I socialize with him. He drives me to specialists, which are an hour away via highways. He often makes breakfast, and he does the dinner dishes a lot. He also pays the bills. And he brings home take-out dinners when he does errands. And he has always done all that needs to be done with fixing & maintaining things.
I vacuum, make simple dinners, make beds, do wash.
We both do yardwork and enjoy long walks in the woods and camping. He still does his favorite activities: motorcycling, whitewater boating, and cross-country skiing.
I use memory crutches, like pill dispensers, and I have a way to signal to myself when I washed my hair the night before, as I wash it every other night. I’ve simplified the menu for Thanksgiving & Christmas & asked my daughter to take over part of it and to take over some other dinners when she’s home about 4-5 times a year.
@susanejw
Your situation sounds very much like mine. I am now afraid to drive to and in the cities so my husband takes me and is a great help around the house. I feel bad for him because his mother died last August and she had dementia which I took her to doctor's visits and got her the things she needed and now that he's retired (he had taken over with his mother) and now does the same for me. I am blessed.