@abel Welcome to Connect! No doubt you are both very disappointed to receive that news, that your brother cannot donate to you. I cannot give you much information about other states, except to say each transplant center has their own criteria. You would have to go through testing again, specific to that center. If you are a veteran, check with the VA, as they will transport you to other states for a transplant. Please let us know what state you are in?
Ginger