Would you recommend proton therapy vs surgical removal of prostate?
Looking for positive feedback. I am 59yr AA male, diagnosed with prostate cancer. My PSA has been 4.86 to 5.46 over the last 6 mths. My Gleason score was 3+3=6, 3+3=6 group 1, with one score reading of 3+4=7. I recently spoke with my urologist and we meet on 22 Dec 2025. I have been working with 2 separate Urologist to confirm diagnosis. Now that I have the confirmation I need I am really not in favor of the invasive robotic removal. I have done my research into other less invasive treatments of which were not initially brought up by the doctors. One is Cybernife radiation treatment and the most recent is Proton therapy treatment. I would like to if anyone has heard of any good results for men just under 60 to have proton therapy or cyberknife and what type of feedback was recieved. What were some side effects if any at all? Why aren't the doctors recommending these options outside of the cost. I have been told by some doctors if you do radiation first that they will not do a removal if the cancer returns. Why is that. My final thought is if PSA is not the sole determining factor for someone to have cancer why is it looked at that way. Finally what is the possibility that cancer has been present for ones entire life and has only become a discussion due to a biopsy.. Why cant it continue under surveillance? Help me unravel my thoughts. However I am leaning more towards trying the the Proton therapy. Please share feedback thank you for listening and I apologize for any confusion.
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Your post indicates you are very attuned to doing what is best for you and the available treatments out there.
Good luck!
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1 ReactionI am a big advocate of radiation treatment (RT) over radical prostatectomy (RP). An RP causes a lot of damage that is hard to recover from. The surgeons talk about new nerve sparing techniques but the reality is that nerves are always damaged with an RP. You can easily become permanently incontinent after an RP as the prostate provides the bulk of the sphincter muscle to control urine flow. Regardless of how good your surgeon is, and no matter how many Kegel exercises you do, if you are lucky enough not to have permanent incontinence, you will still very likely experience urine leakage when you cough, sneeze, lift heavy objects or run. Permanent ED and very compromised sexual function is very common after an RP. As you read through cases on this forum, you will see that RP guys have a lot of incontinence and ED issues, far more than what RT guys experience.
In addition, the RP guys also experience a lot of recurrence causing them to have to use radiation as well. RP guys have a 30% recurrence rate overall but that climbs to 50% and 60% when the patient has Gleason scores of 8 and 9 respectively. Most surgeons simply do not emphasize enough how likely a recurrence is after an RP. Enter your data in the MSK nomogram here https://www.mskcc.org/nomograms/prostate/pre_op if you would like to see your odds of recurrence after an RP.
I believe that the reason that there is such a high recurrence rate after an RP is that there are microscopic escapes of cancer cells outside of the prostate that occur before the RP is even performed. These small cancer cell escapes can't yet be detected by our best scans like the PSMA PET scan. It is still too easy for some cancer cells to lurk in lymph nodes or seminal vesicles without being detected. This is especially true when you have a genetic predisposition like BRCA2, high Gleason scores and/or a high Decipher score. Extracapsular extensions and lesions broadly abutting the prostate capsule also increase the risk that some escape has occurred.
Having so called "clean margins" after an RP is really not much assurance that all the cancer was removed. With radiation treatment and possibly some ADT treatment if needed, cancer in the prostate gland itself and cancer as yet undetected in microscopic escapes can be killed both in the gland itself and the greater pelvic region.
Ideally, we all want to have a treatment plan that let's us be one and done with the least side effects possible and never have to deal with prostate cancer again. There are occasional side effects from radiation and there are some recurrences as well, but overall, as you read through scores of cases on this forum, I think you will find radiation yielding the best overall outcomes in terms of fewest side effects and less recurrences of cancer.
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3 Reactions@gfeaglefan, did you have surgery? Have you had additional treatment? How are you doing now?
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1 ReactionI had HIFU, High Intensity Focused Ultrasound, treatment almost 8 years ago. Melts the tumor and some of the prostate. This is the least invasive procedure I know of. No after-effects. You may be a good candidate, if the cancer is localized in the prostate.
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4 Reactions@brianjarvis I'm just a by-stander here on behalf of a friend, but I've been impressed by the quality of discussion here overall - and your long answer here is terrific, helps put together so much of what I've read on other discussions here recently. Thanks.
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5 ReactionsSorry to hear of your condition.
Two years ago I had successful proton therapy.
PSA was 98. gleason 8, Stage 4.
Was on hormone/chemo drugs a couple months before proton.
PET scan, Genetic test, PSA and testosterone, how one feels, should determine path forward.
@wwsmith I have to disagree with some of your comments. I had an RP after learning I had two cores of cancer, one at 3+4. When the pathology report came back at 4+5, I was glad I chose RP. Also, I did Kegels religiously for the month prior to my surgery and after my catheter was removed. I am not out over two years since my surgery, and ZERO incontinence issues. My surgeon said I was one of the lucky 10%. Your summary of your experience certainly is helpful, but as we know, not everyone is affected the same way.
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8 Reactions@colleenyoung I had surgery on Dec 10th. No further treatment yet-other than tadalafil to increase blood flow. Feeling great! Very little incontinence and ED. Getting stronger everyday. Stopped all pain meds after 14 days.
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6 Reactions@wwsmith "I am a big advocate of radiation treatment (RT) over radical prostatectomy (RP)."
Weill, I am the opposite. I chose RALP 5 years ago to avoid peripheral damage. I chose non-nerve-sparing because the cancer had already reached the surface of the prostate, so the nerves were probably already compromised. Surgery always removes the seminal vesicles, & cancer that escapes to the lymph glands is out the range of radiation, unless you radiate the entire pelvic region (with associated damage). In my case, there was no incontinence, then or now. I still have all the unused diapers.
I can always do radiation later (so far unneeded), but not the other way around. Plus, I kinda liked the idea of one visit (plus one post-op) rather than 38.
My friends who have had surgery are cancer-free after 15 years without any issues. Those that have had radiation, had have significant bladder issues.
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4 Reactions@kjacko Whew! Going from a 3+4 to a 4+5 is a very unwelcome surprise as it puts your probability of recurrence much higher now. If you enter your data both for a 3+4 case and a 4+5 case into the MSK nomogram here https://www.mskcc.org/nomograms/prostate/pre_op you can see the probabilities of recurrence after an RP for each Gleason score scenario.
Such situations happen fairly frequently but it actually reinforces the potential benefits of going with radiation as the initial treatment. Obviously, a recurrence after an RP happens outside the prostate since it is no longer there. If this were to happen, it means that there was some small escape of cancer even before the prostate was removed. If radiation is used initially, both the prostate gland and surrounding pelvic areas can be radiated. This would greatly decrease the chance of recurrence from some small escape of cancer from the prostate gland itself.
Ultimately, as technology improves these microscopic escapes of cancer cells might be detectable in the future and there would not be so much guessing involved on whether escape as already occurred or not. Whenever escape as already occurred, then an RP is not the best choice.