I married a Superwoman who takes care of me. She just finished up her last infusion and is recovering from ovarian cancer. I have Waldenstroms (non-Hodgkins lymphoma) and I had been her caregiver after her surgery and through her main chemotherapy. But she is kinda OC and has to be in charge of the household. That is who she is, and I love her. She now relaxes by doing gardening, reading this forum and the NY Times, and watching her favorite shows. I hope you find some time for yourself and time to do your favorite things at least for a few hours or minutes a day.