I'm glad to find a group that understands RA and all the issues that go with it. I've dealt with it for approximately 20 years and have been on many different meds. Currently xeljanz, plaquinil, and arava. I only confide in a couple friends about my disease. The few times I had reached out to others I heard 'I'm tired too' and 'i have arthritis too'. My biggest struggle now is fatigue.