Thank you. My kids are 28 and 30 respectively. They know the deal – they see the stress in the anger and have for years. I like to think that they would be happy for both of us if we are happier apart. But leaving and creating a broken family structure is a trauma, no doubt. I have to believe that they know I am in pain and lonely, and in need of a better existence. I always wonder how it will feel to be outside the family looking in, spending holidays separately, trying to make them feel like they still have a family, but Not in one place. Been talking about this for years in therapy and still trying to get comfortable with the notion.