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We took one single-overnight trip to Phoenix (just a hour and a half from home, where we’ve gone a jillion times) late in the spring that was quite difficult. Spouse was continually confused, could not keep track of his personal items (though they were right there), etc.
Then in late July we took a 6-day road trip with one of my sons that was fantastic. This involved air travel and then daily driving and a new hotel room every night, all to places unfamiliar to him.
For both “adventures” I did extra contingency planning and don’t know why the outcomes were so different.
I traveled for a few days once without him since his diagnosis. I spent a couple weeks lining up all kinds of help at home during my absence and he did fine. I think I prefer that scenario to traveling with him at this point. Makes me sad though.

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@ktcosmos We never know what will work. When my Mom has memory issues post-stroke, we took her cross country to stay with her sister, on a familiar route. One hour, she would be totally with-it suggesting shortcuts. A while later, she would be asking us where we were going, and asking to go home (800 miles away.)
We found traveling only in daylight, discussing the trip and destination every few hours, and keeping a regular meal schedule, really helped.