@joanland I am so sorry this has happened to you.

It sounds like your son wanted to do more for you, but his wife didn’t appreciate him spending more time on you and your needs than what she was prepared to grant him. My uncle was torn between his mom and his wife in the same way.

I’m so glad you have a supportive community around you. ( don’t have children so I know I need to plan my community. I do have 2 very close nieces but I’m not counting on them having time for me when I’m older.

Awful for you that your son and his wife aren’t talking to you now. You don’t need that stress! They’ve probably had a lot of fights between them over what happened.

Wishing you joy and comfort in your community ❤️‍🩹